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| Society and serenity: road in Gethsemani, by missouri_gal |
Every soul innately yearns for stillness, for a space, a garden where we can till, sow, reap, and rest, and by doing so come to a deeper sense of self and our place in the universe. Silence is not an absence but a presence. Not an emptiness but repletion. A filling up.
- Anne LeClaire
Devotion to a spiritual life in solitude has an appeal of ascetic enlightenment—if one could move the troubles of the world aside maybe a level of blissful consciousness and peaceful understanding could be achieved.
In general, it can be said that no contemplative life is possible without ascetic self-discipline. One must learn to survive without the habit-forming luxuries which get such a hold on men today. I do not say that to be a contemplative one absolutely has to go without smoking or without alcohol, but certainly one must be able to use these things without being dominated by an uncontrolled need for them.
- Thomas Merton, New Seeds of Contemplation![]()
We are limiting our thinking, though, to believe that the world gets in the way of achieving spiritual harmony in our lives. After all, we are—each and all—the world. Each one of us comprises the global society. Individualistically and culturally we are responsible for our actions and reactions, for our divisions and unity. Stress, violence, unease, greed, corruption, gluttony... these are things we tend to explain are out of our control.
Perhaps, though, we do need to add some time to care for ourselves, our peaceful, blissful, spiritual self that is at one inside of us and also part of a greater field of consciousness we all share residence in, that connects us all. It is easy to write, agree with, or bitterly discourage such talk, but taking it seriously could be another, important matter: what if those qualities were nurtured in us as we were children growing up and becoming aware of ourselves and the world, or for a few moments as part of our natural, daily routine? Brush teeth, think peace. Wash dishes, clear your mind. Take a shower, wash away negativity.
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| Oil lamp from the Abbey of Gethsemani by Bryan Sherwood |
His Thoughts in Solitude (Shambhala Pocket Classics) "explores the meaning of interior solitude and its necessary role in bringing every life to joyous fruition", a little book that ends up resting in various places throughout my home, bag or suitcase. Presently it rests in a little spot between my Moleskine diary and Barron's Spanish at a Glance. His explorations come to mind during my contemplations on balancing society and spirituality. Renouncing all societal attachments and ills is one way of escape, but not the way for everyone, and not always the way to an advanced peacefully-attuned society. In one aspect, I have undestood that it is not material items that are negative per se, but our attachment of importance to them above the truths of humanity, spirit and life. In another, greater perspective:
According to the Buddhist point of view, nonattachment is exactly the opposite of separation. You need two things in order to have attachment: the thing you’re attaching to, and the person who’s attaching. In nonattachment, on the other hand, there’s unity. There’s unity because there’s nothing to attach to. If you have unified with the whole universe, there’s nothing outside of you, so the notion of attachment becomes absurd. Who will attach to what?
- John Daido Loori, "The Whole Earth is Medicine"
As with personal psychology and self help, facing societal dis-ease is one aspect in supporting the nurturing changes we can all make in our lives and those of others. To face truth (real truth, not that which is given in media and political rhetoric) we must look past our excuses and face ourselves, first.
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| Gethsemani by missouri_gal |
In an age when totalitarianism has striven, in every way, to devaluate and degrade the human person, we hope it is right to demand a hearing for any and every sane reaction in the favor of man's inalienable solitude and his interior freedom. The murderous din of our materialism cannot be allowed to silence the independent voices which will never cease to speak: whether they be the voices of Christian Saints, or the voices of Oriental sages like Lao-Tse or the Zen Masters, or the voices of men like Thoreau or Martin Buber, or Max Picard. It is all very well to insist that man is a "social animal"—the fact is obvious enough. But that is no justification for making him a mere cog in a totalitarian machine—or in a religious one either, for that matter.
In actual fact, society depends for its existence on the inviolable personal solitude of its members. Society, to merit its name, must be made up not of numbers, or mechanical units, but of persons. To be a person implies responsibility and freedom, and both these imply a certain interior solitude, a sense of personal integrity, a sense of one's own reality and of one's ability to give himself to society—or to refuse that gift.
When men are merely submerged in a mass of impersonal human beings pushed around by automatic forces, they lose their true humanity, their integrity, their ability to love, their capacity for self-determination. When society is made up of men who know no interior solitude it can no longer be held together by love: and consequently it is held together by a violent and abusive authority. But when men are violently deprived of the solitude and freedom which are their due, the society in which they live becomes putrid, it festers with servility, resentment and hate.
No amount of technological progress will cure the hatred that eats away the vitals of materialistic society like a spiritual cancer. The only cure is, and must always be, spiritual. There is not much using talking to men about God and love if they are not able to listen. The ears with which one hears the message of the Gospel are hidden in men's heart, and these ears do not hear anything unless they are favored with a certain interior solitude and silence.
In other words, since faith is a matter of freedom and self-determination—the free receiving of a freely given gift of grace—man cannot assent to a spiritual message as long as his mind and heart are enslaved by automatism. He will always remain so enslaved as long as he is submerged in a mass of other automatons, without individuality and without their rightful integrity as persons.
What is said here about solitude is not just a recipe for hermits. It has a bearing on the whole future of man and of his world: and especially, of course, on the future of his religion.
I recognize at this point some people may get uneasy, put off and possibly distracted into distaste with reference to God and Gospel, especially if opinions toward or against religious belief are filtered through the very societal disruptions aforementioned or other divisions. In a letter to a fellow Catholic writer, Merton commented:
The world is full of great criminals with enormous power, and they are in a death struggle with each other. It is a huge gang battle, using well-meaning lawyers and policemen and clergymen as their front, controlling papers, means of communication, and enrolling everybody in their armies.
Merton observed in his autobiography, The Seven Storey Mountain, that all religions "lead to God, only in different ways, and every man should go according to his own conscience, and settle things according to his own private way of looking at things." Truly, we all have our own perception, belief, or non belief in God or a higher consciousness and definition thereof. Alain de Botton addresses the question, "What aspects of religion should atheists (respectfully) adopt?" in his Atheism 2.0 TEDtalk. Talk of religious orientation and argument, while stimulating in its own right, is merely an attachment to diversion on the matters addressed in this post: if need be, look past the surface; the essence is important. What awareness and ideas can you carry through life?
Knowing is a start; mindful and aware practice is one step in the right direction. If each one of us could integrate moments of peaceful attention into our lives—whether meditation, yoga, a mind escape during exercise, listening to relaxing or inspiring music, even zoning out on the couch in silence or connecting with nature—as part of our daily routine, allow solitude develop and integrate the positive, maybe we wouldn't need so many excuses for reality. Maybe reality would be a better place. It can, after all, be what we make it to be, individually and cooperatively, harmoniously and vibrantly. Just a thought.
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| Flower of Gethsemani by Jay Paradis |











